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Reducing Stress – Caring for Yourself

10 tips to help caregivers lower their stress levels

Reducing Stress – Caring for Yourself

Caregiving is demanding – physically and emotionally.  Here are 10 tips to help caregivers lower their stress levels.

  1. Keep realistic expectations.  If you are working and are a caregiver you essentially have two full time jobs.  Be reasonable about what you expect to accomplish each day.
  2. Get organized. Make a list, then prioritize.  Ask your supervisor to help you set priorities at work.  Talk to your family about splitting up caregiving responsibilities.
  3. Learn to say “no.”  In both work and caregiving, take on only what you can handle.
  4. Accept changes as they occur.  Rather than resist, try to welcome change when it comes into your life. 
  5. Ask for help.  Turn to supportive colleagues, family, friends and professionals.
  6. Acknowledge your feelings.  Take note of when you are angry, worried or feeling stress, but then try not to “hold on” to the negative feelings for too long.
  7. Take care of your self:  Care for your body, mind and spirit.  Eating right, exercising, and getting enough sleep will help you feel refreshed. 
  8. Learn relaxation techniques. Breathing exercises and guided imagery are easy to learn.  Click here for beginner’s relaxation exercises.
  9. Pay attention to feelings of guilt. Do you feel guilty if you lose your patience or need help from others?  Try to let go of this “false guilt.”
  10. Rephrase negative thoughts.  For example, “I’ve accomplished a lot” rather than “I can never get anything done.”